Why does my 8 month old keep waking up at night?

Answered by Phillip Nicastro

There can be several reasons why your 8-month-old baby is waking up at night. It’s important to remember that every baby is different and may have their own unique sleep patterns and needs. Here are some possible explanations for your baby’s nighttime awakenings:

1. Developmental milestones: At around 8 months, babies are going through significant developmental changes. They may be learning new skills such as crawling, pulling themselves up, or even starting to walk. These milestones can cause excitement and restlessness, making it difficult for them to settle down and sleep through the night.

2. Separation anxiety: Around this age, many babies start experiencing separation anxiety. They have formed strong attachments to their caregivers and may become more clingy and anxious when separated. This can result in increased nighttime awakenings as they seek comfort and reassurance from you.

3. Teething: Teething can be a common cause of nighttime wake-ups for babies. The discomfort and pain from emerging teeth can disrupt their sleep and cause them to wake up frequently. Offer teething toys or provide some relief with teething gels or medications recommended by your pediatrician.

4. Hunger or growth spurts: As babies grow, their nutritional needs increase. They may require additional feeds during the night to support their growth. This is especially common during growth spurts, which can lead to more frequent night awakenings as they seek nourishment.

5. Sleep associations: If your baby has developed certain sleep associations, such as being rocked or fed to sleep, they may struggle to fall back asleep on their own when they naturally wake up during the night. Helping them learn to self-soothe and fall back asleep independently can be helpful in reducing nighttime awakenings.

6. Environmental factors: Sometimes, external factors such as temperature, noise, or discomfort can contribute to your baby’s nighttime awakenings. Ensure that the sleep environment is conducive to sleep, with a comfortable temperature, minimal distractions, and a soothing ambiance.

It’s important to remember that sleep regressions and disruptions are a normal part of a baby’s development. They often come and go, and with time, your baby’s sleep patterns will usually stabilize. In the meantime, you can try implementing a consistent bedtime routine, creating a calm and soothing sleep environment, and offering comfort and reassurance to help your baby settle back to sleep during the night.

Personal experience: When my daughter went through the 8-month sleep regression, it was a challenging time for both of us. She started waking up multiple times during the night, and it took longer for her to fall asleep at bedtime. I found that establishing a consistent bedtime routine with calming activities such as reading a book or gentle music helped signal to her that it was time to sleep. I also made sure to address her teething discomfort by using teething gels and offering teething toys. It took a few weeks, but eventually, her sleep patterns improved, and she started sleeping through the night again. Patience and consistency were key during this phase.