Why does my baby keep pulling off the breast?

Answered by Robert Flynn

Babies may pull off the breast for various reasons, and one common reason is that they are looking for a faster milk flow. It’s important to remember that every baby is different, and their preferences and needs can vary. Some babies may become impatient with the slower milk flow that occurs after the initial fast flow at let-down.

One reason for this impatience could be that babies are used to a quicker flow of milk from bottles or artificial nipples. When they experience a slower flow at the breast, they may become frustrated and pull off in search of a faster flow. This can be especially true if they have been given bottles in the past or if they have been primarily bottle-fed.

Another reason for pulling off the breast could be that babies are trying to stimulate another let-down. Babies are quick to learn that certain actions, such as pulling, kneading, or even just sucking more vigorously, can trigger another let-down of milk. They may pull off and then quickly latch back on in an attempt to encourage a faster milk flow.

It’s also worth noting that some babies have a stronger suck reflex and may be more efficient at extracting milk from the breast. These babies may become frustrated with a slower flow and may pull off to try and speed things up.

In addition to these reasons, there may be other factors at play. For example, some babies may be experiencing discomfort or pain while nursing, such as from teething or an ear infection. They may pull off the breast as a way to alleviate the discomfort.

If your baby is consistently pulling off the breast and showing signs of frustration, there are a few things you can try to help facilitate a faster milk flow. One option is to try breast compressions. This involves gently compressing the breast while your baby is actively sucking, which can help to release more milk and increase the flow.

Another option is to switch breasts more frequently during a feeding. This can help to keep the milk flowing and prevent your baby from becoming impatient with a slower flow.

You can also try different breastfeeding positions to see if that helps with the flow. Some positions, such as the laid-back position or the side-lying position, can encourage a faster flow of milk.

It’s important to remember that breastfeeding is a learning process for both you and your baby. It can take time to establish a good milk flow and for your baby to become comfortable and efficient at nursing. If you’re concerned about your baby’s feeding habits or if you’re experiencing persistent difficulties, it’s always a good idea to reach out to a lactation consultant or healthcare provider for support and guidance.