How do I calm my dog when guests arrive?

Answered by John Hunt

To calm your dog when guests arrive, there are several steps you can take. First, it’s important to understand that dogs often get excited when they see new people because they are social animals and enjoy the company of others. However, it’s important to teach them how to behave appropriately when guests come over.

1. Provide exercise beforehand: Before guests arrive, take your dog for a long walk or engage in some playtime to tire them out. A tired dog is more likely to be calm and less likely to become overly excited.

2. Create a designated space: Set up a designated space for your dog where they can go when guests arrive. This could be a separate room or a crate. Make this space comfortable and include their favorite toys or a chew bone to keep them occupied. This will give your dog a safe and quiet place to retreat to when they need a break from the excitement.

3. Use positive reinforcement: Teach your dog basic obedience commands such as “sit,” “stay,” and “down.” Practice these commands regularly and reward your dog with treats or praise when they respond correctly. By reinforcing these commands, you can redirect your dog’s attention and help them stay calm when guests arrive.

4. Gradual exposure: If your dog tends to get overly excited when guests come over, gradually expose them to new people in controlled environments. Start with one guest at a time and gradually increase the number of guests over time. This will help your dog become more comfortable and less anxious around new people.

5. Manage greetings: Teach your dog how to greet guests politely. Train them to sit or stay when someone enters the house and reward them for calm behavior. Encourage guests to ignore your dog until they have settled down. This will help prevent your dog from jumping or barking excessively when guests arrive.

6. Stay calm yourself: Dogs are highly perceptive and can pick up on your emotions. If you become anxious or stressed when guests arrive, your dog may mirror that behavior. Stay calm and relaxed, and your dog is more likely to follow suit.

7. Seek professional help if needed: If your dog’s excitement level is severe or if they exhibit signs of fear or aggression towards guests, it may be beneficial to seek the help of a professional dog trainer or behaviorist. They can assess the situation and provide you with tailored strategies to calm your dog and improve their behavior.

Remember, calming your dog when guests arrive takes time and patience. Consistency and positive reinforcement are key in teaching your dog appropriate behavior. With practice and proper training, your dog can learn to greet guests calmly and enjoy their company without becoming overly excited.