Can you turn read receipts on for one person on iPhone?

Answered by Michael Wilson

It is possible to turn on read receipts for specific contacts on an iPhone. This feature allows you to control whether the person you are messaging can see if you have read their message or not. Here’s how you can do it:

1. Open the Settings app on your iPhone.
2. Scroll down and tap on “Messages”.
3. In the Messages settings, look for the “Send Read Receipts” option. By default, it is set to off.
4. Toggle the switch next to “Send Read Receipts” to enable it. This will turn on read receipts for all contacts.

Now, if you want to enable read receipts for a specific contact, you can do it individually. Here’s how:

1. Open the Contacts app on your iPhone.
2. Find and select the contact you want to enable read receipts for.
3. Tap on the “Info” button, usually represented by the letter “i” inside a circle.
4. Scroll down and look for the “Send Read Receipts” option.
5. Toggle the switch next to “Send Read Receipts” to enable it. This will turn on read receipts only for this particular contact.

By enabling read receipts for a specific contact, they will be able to see when you have read their messages, while for all other contacts, read receipts will still be disabled.

It’s worth noting that when you enable read receipts for a contact, it will override the general settings for read receipts in the Messages app. So, even if you have read receipts turned off in the Messages settings, the specific contact will still be able to see if you have read their messages.

Using read receipts can have its advantages and disadvantages. On one hand, it allows the other person to know that you have read their message, which can help in maintaining open communication and prompt responses. On the other hand, it can also create pressure and expectations for an immediate response, which might not always be possible or convenient.

In my personal experience, I have found read receipts to be useful in certain situations. For example, when coordinating plans with friends or family, it can be helpful for them to know that I have read their message and will get back to them soon. However, there are also times when I prefer to have read receipts disabled, especially when I need some time to think or when I am busy and unable to respond immediately.

Ultimately, the decision to enable or disable read receipts for specific contacts on your iPhone is up to your personal preference and the dynamics of your relationships. It’s worth experimenting with this feature and adjusting it based on your needs and comfort level.