How do I get my male dog to stop whining when female is in heat?

Answered by Robert Dupre

When a female dog is in heat, it can be quite challenging to calm a male dog who is experiencing heightened hormones and a strong desire to mate. However, there are several strategies you can try to help alleviate your male dog’s whining and restlessness during this time.

1. Separate the dogs: The most effective way to calm a male dog when a female is in heat is to keep them apart until she is no longer in heat. This can prevent any potential mating attempts and reduce the male’s frustration. Keep the female in a separate room or area of the house, and if possible, place the male in a different part of the house or even outdoors.

2. Create physical barriers: If you don’t have enough space to completely separate the dogs, you can use baby gates or other physical barriers to keep them apart. This way, they can still see and smell each other, but they won’t have direct access to each other. It’s important to ensure that the barriers are secure and that the male cannot jump over or knock them down.

3. Provide distractions: To help redirect your male dog’s attention away from the female in heat, provide him with plenty of mental and physical stimulation. Engage in interactive play sessions, give him puzzle toys or treat-dispensing toys, and take him for regular walks or runs to burn off excess energy. By keeping him occupied, you can help reduce his whining and restlessness.

4. Use calming aids: There are various calming aids available on the market, such as pheromone diffusers or sprays, that can help reduce your male dog’s anxiety and restlessness. These products mimic natural calming scents and can create a more relaxed environment for your dog. Consult with your veterinarian to determine which product may be suitable for your dog and follow the instructions for proper usage.

5. Consider temporary separation: If your male dog’s behavior becomes overly disruptive or aggressive during the female’s heat cycle, it might be necessary to temporarily board him in a kennel or ask a trusted friend or family member to care for him until the female is no longer in heat. This can provide both dogs with a much-needed break from the stress and frustration of being in close proximity to each other.

It’s important to note that every dog is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. If your male dog’s whining persists or becomes more intense despite your efforts, it’s advisable to consult with a professional dog trainer or behaviorist who can provide personalized guidance and assistance.