Why are faithful prayers important in marriage?

Answered by Tom Adger

Faithful prayers are incredibly important in marriage for several reasons. Firstly, prayer allows us to connect with the source of love itself. In 1 John 4:7, it is written that “God is love,” and by praying, we have the opportunity to tap into that divine love and share it with our spouse. It is through prayer that we can ask God to fill our hearts with love for one another and seek His guidance in loving our partner unconditionally.

Secondly, prayer connects us with the author of creation. In Isaiah 66:2, it says, “These are the ones I look on with favor: those who are humble and contrite in spirit, and who tremble at my word.” By approaching God in prayer, with humility and reverence, we invite His presence into our marriage. We acknowledge that He is the ultimate authority and seek His wisdom and guidance in all aspects of our relationship.

Furthermore, prayer is a powerful way to seek God’s intervention and ask for His blessings on our marriage. In Matthew 7:11, Jesus tells us, “If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!” When we pray, we have the assurance that our Heavenly Father hears our requests and desires to bless our marriage abundantly.

During difficult times, prayer becomes a refuge for couples. James 5:13 encourages us to pray when we are suffering, saying, “Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray.” In the face of challenges, prayer provides solace, comfort, and strength. It allows us to pour out our burdens, fears, and anxieties before God, trusting that He will provide the help and support we need.

Prayer is not only reserved for times of hardship but also for times of celebration and thanksgiving. In James 5:13, it also says, “Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise.” When we experience joy and blessings in our marriage, prayer becomes a natural response of gratitude. It is an opportunity to express our thankfulness to God for His faithfulness and provision.

My own personal experience has shown me the power of faithful prayers in marriage. There have been times when my spouse and I faced challenges that seemed insurmountable, but through prayer, we found strength, comfort, and solutions. We have witnessed the transformation that occurs when we invite God into our struggles and seek His guidance. Prayer has deepened our love for one another and allowed us to grow individually and as a couple.

Faithful prayers are essential in marriage because they connect us with the source of love, the author of creation, and the giver of good gifts. Prayer provides a refuge in difficult times and a platform for praise during good times. It strengthens our bond with God and with each other. Through prayer, we invite God’s presence, seek His guidance, and experience His blessings in our marriage.