What is the average RSVP rate for weddings?

Answered by Randy McIntyre

Determining the average RSVP rate for weddings can be a bit tricky because it can vary depending on various factors such as the type of wedding, the location, the size of the guest list, and the relationship between the couple and their guests. However, a general estimate is that around 15 percent of invitees will decline the invitation.

It’s important to keep in mind that this is just an average and the actual number of declines can vary. For example, if you’re planning a destination wedding, it’s not uncommon for the decline rate to be higher, more in the range of 20-30 percent. This is because attending a destination wedding often requires more time, money, and travel arrangements for guests.

When it comes to determining the RSVP rate for your specific wedding, there are a few factors you can consider. Firstly, think about your guest list. Are you inviting mostly close family and friends who you know will likely attend? Or are you extending invitations to a larger group of acquaintances and colleagues who may have other commitments? The closer the relationship between the couple and their guests, the higher the likelihood of a positive response.

Secondly, consider the nature of your wedding. If you’re planning a small, intimate affair, the RSVP rate may be higher as guests are more likely to prioritize attending. On the other hand, if you’re planning a larger wedding, there may be more flexibility for guests to decline due to other commitments or conflicts.

It’s also important to keep in mind that life happens, and unexpected circumstances can arise that may prevent some guests from attending even if they initially intended to. This could include illness, family emergencies, or work commitments.

To help manage your guest list and anticipate the number of declines, it’s useful to send out your invitations well in advance, especially for destination weddings. This gives guests ample time to make arrangements and respond. Additionally, consider including a response card or using an online RSVP system to make it easy for guests to indicate their attendance.

Ultimately, while it’s helpful to have a rough estimate of the RSVP rate, it’s important to be prepared for some uncertainty. Remember to focus on the joy and excitement of celebrating your special day with those who are able to attend, rather than getting too caught up in the numbers.