What if my bridesmaid dress is too big?

Answered by Willie Powers

If your bridesmaid dress comes out too big, it can be quite stressful, especially if you have limited time before the wedding. However, there are steps you can take to address this issue and ensure that your dress fits you perfectly on the big day.

1. Find a professional tailor or seamstress: The first and most important step is to find a professional who specializes in alterations. Look for someone with experience in bridal wear or formal dresses as they will have the expertise to handle delicate fabrics and intricate designs.

2. Schedule an appointment: Once you have identified a reputable tailor or seamstress, schedule an appointment as soon as possible. During busy wedding seasons, it may take a while to get an appointment, so don’t delay in reaching out to them.

3. Take accurate measurements: Before your appointment, take accurate measurements of your body, including your bust, waist, hips, and length. This will help the tailor understand how much needs to be altered and ensure a better fit. If you are unsure about how to measure yourself properly, consider asking a friend or family member for assistance.

4. Consult with the tailor: When you meet with the tailor, explain the issue with your dress and discuss your desired fit. Be specific about the areas that need to be taken in and any other alterations you may require, such as shortening the hemline or adjusting the straps. It’s important to communicate your preferences clearly to ensure the best outcome.

5. Try on the dress: The tailor will likely ask you to try on the dress so they can assess the alterations needed. They may use pins to mark the areas that require adjustment. It’s essential to wear the undergarments and shoes you plan to wear on the wedding day to ensure accurate measurements.

6. Allow time for alterations: Depending on the extent of the alterations needed, it may take a few weeks for the tailor to complete the work. It’s crucial to factor in this time frame when planning your alterations. Communicate your wedding date to the tailor, so they are aware of the deadline.

7. Attend fittings: You may need to attend one or more fittings to ensure that the dress is being altered correctly. During these fittings, provide feedback to the tailor about the fit and any adjustments that may still need to be made. It’s important to be vocal about your preferences and ensure that the dress fits you comfortably and flatters your figure.

8. Final alterations and finishing touches: Once the alterations are complete, try on the dress one final time to ensure that you are satisfied with the fit. The tailor may make some last-minute adjustments to ensure everything is perfect. They will also take care of any necessary finishing touches, such as sewing on buttons or adding hooks and eyes.

9. Collect the dress: Once the alterations are complete, collect your dress well in advance of the wedding day. Store it properly, following any care instructions provided by the tailor, to ensure it remains in pristine condition until the wedding.

Remember, it’s essential to give yourself enough time for alterations, especially if the dress requires significant changes. Rushing the process may lead to unsatisfactory results or additional stress. It’s always better to start the alterations process early to ensure a perfect fit and a stress-free wedding day.

Personal experience: I had a similar situation with a bridesmaid dress that was too big for me. I found a skilled tailor who specialized in bridal wear alterations. She took my measurements and carefully pinned the dress to determine the alterations needed. I attended a couple of fittings, and she made the necessary adjustments to ensure a perfect fit. The end result was a dress that fit me like a glove, and I felt confident and comfortable on the wedding day.