Traditionally, in British weddings, married women are not asked to be part of the wedding party, including serving as the maid of honor. This is likely why the Duchess of Cambridge, Kate Middleton, did not serve as the maid of honor in her sister Pippa Middleton’s wedding to James Matthews.
In British wedding tradition, the maid of honor is typically an unmarried woman, often a close friend or sister of the bride. The role of the maid of honor is to assist the bride throughout the wedding planning process and on the wedding day itself. This includes helping with tasks such as dress shopping, organizing the bridal shower, and making sure everything runs smoothly on the big day.
While it would have been a lovely gesture for Kate Middleton to serve as Pippa’s maid of honor, it is understandable that she did not, given the traditional expectations surrounding the role. Additionally, as the Duchess of Cambridge, Kate likely had other responsibilities and commitments that would have made it difficult for her to fully dedicate herself to the role.
That being said, Kate Middleton did play an important role in her sister’s wedding. She was seen arriving at the church with the other members of the wedding party and was responsible for looking after the young page boys and flower girls, including her own children, Prince George and Princess Charlotte. This was a significant role in itself, as she ensured that the children behaved and participated in the wedding proceedings.
It is worth noting that Pippa Middleton’s wedding was a grand affair, held in the English countryside with a high-profile guest list. The media attention surrounding the event was immense, and every detail was scrutinized. Therefore, it is understandable that the traditional roles and expectations were followed closely.
While Kate Middleton did not serve as the maid of honor in her sister Pippa’s wedding, she still played an important role in the wedding party. The decision to adhere to traditional British wedding customs likely influenced this choice. Ultimately, the focus should be on celebrating the love and joy of the couple getting married, rather than the specific roles individuals play in the wedding party.