How often should you snap your crush?

Answered by Douglas Hiatt

When it comes to snapping your crush, it’s important to strike a balance between showing interest and giving them space. Texting them 2-3 times a week is a good frequency to aim for. This allows for regular communication without overwhelming them or appearing too clingy.

By spacing out your messages over a few days, you give your crush time to miss you and anticipate your next conversation. It also prevents the conversation from becoming monotonous or feeling forced. It’s important to keep the conversation engaging and exciting, and having a few days between messages can help with that.

Since you aren’t in a relationship with your crush yet, it’s perfectly acceptable to have a day or two in between your conversations. This shows that you have a life outside of texting them and that you’re not solely focused on them. It also allows both of you to have time for personal activities and other social interactions.

However, it’s important to pay attention to your crush’s response and adjust your frequency accordingly. If they seem disinterested or take a long time to respond, it might be a sign that you should slow down a bit. On the other hand, if they respond enthusiastically and frequently initiate conversations, you can adjust your texting frequency accordingly.

Remember to keep the conversations interesting and varied. Talk about shared interests, ask open-ended questions, and share funny or interesting anecdotes. Avoid bombarding them with too many messages or texts that are too lengthy, as this can come across as overwhelming or desperate.

It’s also worth mentioning that texting is just one form of communication. It’s important to balance it with in-person interactions and other forms of communication like phone calls or video chats. Building a connection and getting to know someone requires a variety of interactions, so don’t solely rely on texting to develop your relationship.

When texting your crush, aim for 2-3 times a week to strike a balance between showing interest and giving them space. Spacing out your messages allows for anticipation and prevents the conversation from becoming stale. Pay attention to their response and adjust your frequency accordingly. And remember, texting is just one aspect of building a connection, so mix it up with other forms of communication as well.