In my experience, it seems to be a general consensus among mothers that one baby shower is the norm. It’s seen as a special celebration to welcome the impending arrival of a new baby and to shower the expectant mother with gifts and support. However, I have come across some situations where a mother may have more than one baby shower.
The most common scenario for having multiple baby showers is when a mother has children of different sexes. In such cases, it is not uncommon for friends and family to want to celebrate the arrival of each child individually. For example, if a mother has a baby girl for her first child and then later has a baby boy, it is often considered appropriate to have a second baby shower for the boy.
Of course, this is not a hard and fast rule, and some mothers may choose not to have a second baby shower even if they have a child of a different sex. It ultimately depends on personal preference and the cultural norms and expectations of the community.
It’s worth noting that having multiple baby showers can also depend on the time gap between pregnancies. If there is a long enough period between pregnancies, friends and family may feel it is appropriate to have another baby shower to support the mother and celebrate the new addition to the family.
However, it is important to consider the practicality and etiquette of having multiple baby showers. Some people may argue that it can be seen as excessive or greedy to have more than one baby shower. After all, the purpose of a baby shower is to provide support and gifts for the mother and baby, and having multiple showers may give the impression of expecting too much.
In my personal opinion, having one baby shower is sufficient. It allows for a special celebration and provides an opportunity for loved ones to come together and show their support. However, if circumstances align and there are valid reasons for having multiple baby showers, such as different genders or a significant time gap between pregnancies, I believe it can be acceptable.
Ultimately, the decision of how many baby showers to have is a personal one, and it is important to consider the preferences and expectations of the mother-to-be, as well as the cultural norms and practices of the community.