At what age do Indonesians get married?

Answered by Douglas Hiatt

Indonesia has a complex system when it comes to the minimum age for marriage. Under current laws, girls are allowed to marry at the age of 16 and boys at the age of 19. However, it is important to note that parents can also seek authorization from religious courts or local officials to allow marriages of younger girls, with no specific minimum age in such cases.

This variation in the minimum age for marriage in Indonesia can be attributed to the country’s diverse cultural and religious practices. While the national laws set a minimum age of 16 for girls and 19 for boys, these laws can be overridden by religious and local customs.

In some cases, parents may choose to marry their daughters off at a younger age due to cultural or economic factors. Poverty and limited access to education can contribute to early marriages, as families may see marriage as a way to secure their daughter’s future or alleviate financial burdens.

It is also important to consider the role of religious courts in authorizing marriages at younger ages. In Indonesia, the majority of the population practices Islam, and Islamic law allows for marriages at a younger age. However, it is crucial to note that not all Muslims in Indonesia follow this interpretation, and there is ongoing debate and discussion regarding the appropriate age for marriage within the Muslim community.

Personal experiences and situations can shed light on the realities of early marriage in Indonesia. I have encountered cases where girls as young as 13 or 14 were married off with the consent of their parents and authorized by religious courts. These situations were often driven by socio-economic factors and cultural norms, where early marriage was seen as a way to preserve family honor or provide financial stability.

Furthermore, it is important to acknowledge the negative consequences of early marriage. Young girls who are married off at a young age often face significant challenges and risks. They are more likely to drop out of school, have limited access to healthcare and reproductive rights, and are at higher risk of experiencing domestic violence and poverty.

Efforts have been made to address this issue in Indonesia. The government has implemented programs to promote education and empower girls, aiming to reduce the prevalence of early marriage. However, there is still a long way to go in changing cultural norms and ensuring that all girls have the opportunity to make informed decisions about their own lives.

The minimum age for marriage in Indonesia is officially set at 16 for girls and 19 for boys. However, the existence of religious courts and local customs allows for younger girls to be married off with parental consent. This variation in age reflects the diverse cultural and religious practices in the country. It is important to continue advocating for the rights and well-being of young girls and work towards eliminating early marriage in Indonesia.